Wednesday, March 10, 2010

A LITTLE BIRDIE TOLD ME TO SPILL MY GUTS...So I am....


A little birdie told me it was time for an "UPDATE"....so here goes...
David has just been disconnected from his third chemo round this evening...
He is eating well and not experiencing any nausea at all...Praise God!..
He is starting to get anemic which is common, and has had a couple of nosebleeds...
This evening he would tell you he is the most tired he has ever felt and I expect tomorrow he will do a lot of sleeping...
We are hoping to celebrate our 40th Anniversary this weekend....tired or not it is amazing to have lived and loved for 40 years...we are blessed.
Dave continues to have sensitivity to cold in his fingertips....nothing dramatic.
Last week he even ran a few miles while I was walking....he seems to have more stamina the week he is off the chemo.
At this point...our biggest struggle is our emotions...we both cry often and then we talk one another out of it and before you know it we're tearing up again...
It's a freakin "Rollercoaster" of emotions....exhausting.
We both are very secure in the Lord and witness His presence daily....it's the waiting....Neither of us claims waiting a virtue....but we're learning. We have 6 more weeks to go before we know if the Chemo has done it's job.
As always We both send you all our heartfelt Thanks for your Prayers, Cards, e-mails, loving wishes and sweetest of conversations....
We continue to ask for your prayers as we have witnessed first hand their comfort...
AND NOW FOR A LITTLE QUESTION AND ANSWER....
SOME OF YOU HAVE ASKED ME THE COLORS IN MY LIVING ROOM...
They are "Butter" from Restoration Hardware...
"Mint Frappe" Behr, from Home Depot...
"Creamy White" Behr, also Home Depot...
The pale pink accents I've mixed myself so hard to tell you what that is...I just took a gallon of white and added a coral that I had until I had just the palest pink...didn't take much coral to get the pink I liked.
Hope that is helpful...
WHAT PATTERN DID YOU USE FOR YOUR BAGS...
I used AMY BUTLERS pattern called "THE SWING BAG"...It's reversible...easy and a good "Jack of all trades" bag.
WHAT IS THE COLOR YOU USED ON THE BLUISH GREEN ACCENTS ABOVE YOUR KITCHEN CUPBOARDS?...
I mixed that myself too....not very helpful am I?...
WHERE DID YOU GET THAT PINK BOWL ON THE BENCH IN THE LIVING ROOM?
T.J.Maxx...Who-hoo!
Welllllll.....that's all I can remember for now...Hope your having fun these days ...haven't we had some beautiful sunshine for March!!!! A few showers coming...but that's okay , it brings flowers!!!
My love to you all...xoxo~Kathy.

31 comments:

  1. Hi Kathy!
    Thank you for the update! {HUG}
    Happy Anniversary too!

    You are in my prayers!
    God Bless you both!
    Patricia

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  2. I know you hear it a lot these days but I am praying for you and Dave and will keep doing so. I believe in the power of prayer and you have a lot of people out there doing it, lady friend!! I am so glad that Dave is still running because keeping in shape keeps him healthy. And congratulations on your 40th anniversary. Wow!!

    Much love and hugs,

    xoxo
    Jane

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  3. You and your hubby are in my prayers. Happy 40th and I'm praying for many, many more.

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  4. Happy Anniversary my Michigan friend! Best to you and your DH! Hope all continues to go well!

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  5. Hi, you two lovebirds...Forty years together..that is very awesome.Good things are coming your way...it's gonna be ok for you two.
    I just feel it in my heart.
    I am still loving my towel holder, still trying to decide how I want to make it mine. I can't believe my good fortune..If you get a minute run by my my blog and let me know if you like it...
    Much love going out your way..
    glendaxoxo

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  6. Happy 40th!! great to hear that you have been married that long!!god bless you and your husband!will pray for the both of you you..

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  7. I hope the two of you have a wonderful and happy anniversary. Remember all the special good times the two of you have had together, and praying that you will have many more!
    Take Care!
    Ulrike

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  8. Hi Kathy, I had no idea doll. I hope you have a wonderful anniversary. You really didnt spill your guts, you are a class act and did tell us with your grace. Best wishes and God Bless.
    Love,Debbie

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  9. Congratulations on 40 years together! That seems awesome in this world where so many people use any old excuse to split up!
    Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

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  10. I am so glad you have us an update. I am so thankful he is doing so well. Congrats on your anniversary. Have a wonderful weekend.

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  11. Kathy, so glad your going to celebrate 40 amazing years together. WOW
    I tip my Canadian hat to you both. Enjoy the moment.
    I spoke to my mom today, she lives across the river from you, kind of. She's in Windsor, Ontario. It was a beautiful spring day there today also, and tomorrow looks even better....just like David's outlook : )
    It's suppose to be in the high 50's here tomorrow. Record breaking for this time of year.
    Only 3 more sleeps before this girl is out of here, and on her way to Fla.
    Happy Anniversary dear friend.
    Love Claudie
    xoxoxoxo

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  12. Congratulations on 40 years!! That is great! Praying for your husband and so hopeful that the chemo treatments are working. I am a cancer survivor. It is almost 7 years for me. Thanks for the update. Love & blessings from NC!

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  13. Thank you for the update. No shame in the crying ... I'd be a blubbering mess. :) I'm praying for continued hope and courage for both of you.

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  14. Happy 40th!! great !!

    god bless you both !!

    I pray for the both of you you....enjoy this day the sun is shining !

    Is the packked arrived yet ??

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  15. Kathy, you are both in my prayers too. One of my best friends was recently diagnosed with breast cancer. She was just telling me yesterday that they are feeling very emotional. I would guess that's to be expected. Keep loving each other and hang in there. Many people care.

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  16. Thanks so much for the update, Kathy. You both remain in my thoughts and prayers.

    Have a wonderful anniversary!

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  17. Happy Anniversary..How blessed you are to have each other.What a shining example you are to all of us.
    Rest assured you pop into my thoughts regularly.
    I admire you both and can't wait to hear the good news.
    I cry easily.

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  18. Dear Kathy, thank you for the update. I'm holding you and your sweet husband in my thoughts and prayers. Have a wonderful anniversary celebration!

    xo
    Claudia

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  19. Kathy.....Happy 40th Anniversary to you both! We will be there in 2 more years. As always, prayers and positive thoughts to you and Dave!~Patti

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  20. Hi Kathy,
    My prayers are also with you and Dave. You both inspire me with your faith and your love story.

    Happy Anniversary :)

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  21. 40 Years, a marrage and family to emulate, 4 kids who are beautiful and creative people, 9 gorgeous grandchildren, how many houses that you have nested in, fixed up, waved your creative wand over.....you two have filled 40 years chock-full and here's praying for 40 more for you. Happy Anniversary!

    Nicci

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  22. Hokey toot Kathy! Why haven't we found each other before this??? You're SO close...what? About 2 hours or less? Your home is just so lovely...I have been scrolling down to peek at your older posts! And your newest Amy Butler bag? Whoa! Be still my heart! Don't know if that is something I could try...I am a novice seamstress, at best. But...I think I might give it a shot! The fabric is what caught my eye....that bird!
    Let's be sure to keep in touch, and I will be praying for your dear hubby. (Farmboy and I will have our 39th this fall!)

    xoxo,
    Cindy

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  23. Morning Kathy,
    So glad to hear that Dave is doing as well as he is! I remember how tired my sister was...it usually started a day after her chemo and would last almost a week, but fortunately she was not sick, and could eat like your Dave, but it still very discouraging cause sometimes you feel like you will never be the same. We will sure keep praying for you guys, it is a tumultuous time emotionally and the time seems to drag by.
    Congratulations on your 40th Anniversary that is coming this week. How Wonderful, you are very blessed my friend!! and so am I, we will celebrate our 40th in November of this year.
    It is amazing to think about isn't it, that it could be that long, but you love the person even more now than ever, what a blessing that is in todays society.
    Will pray Dave will be feeling much better by
    your Anniversary so you can celebrate a little at least!!
    Blessings and prayers hon,
    Nellie

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  24. Dear Sweet Kathy...

    Wishing you a blessed and happy 40th Anniversary this weekend. It is such a rare thing to find and be with your true love in this life. How blessed you both are. Please know we will be lifting you, David and your entire family in prayers for a perfect outcome in every way. It just occurred to me that, in a way, this is akin to "dispersing the burden" of worry for you... except that instead of dispersing a negative (grief) you are gathering a bundle of positives i.e., Faith. God's blessings, joy, wisdom and strength to you all.

    Love,
    Tracey

    P.S. A thousand thanks for your comforting comments and prayers with/for us...they are truly and warmly felt. x0x

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  25. Dearest Kathy,

    I just love your sweet soul, you are a brave and loving woman and it warms my heart that you and David have had 40 years to love each other. Those 40 years are the strength you both need to get through this...and get through this you will, I just know it and your love story will continue my friend!

    Please know that you and David are loved and prayed for and thought of often!

    BIG HUGE HUGS!

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  26. Hi, darlin'..I had to go back and do some catch up on your posts. I am having a hard time surfing thru this big land of Blog...I'm olden and....slow..:)
    So thankful to hear things seems to be going good for now with your sweet hubby. We are all on pins and needles to hear how the treatments are working.
    Your bag...I am so so in love with it...with your daughters rock star toes...with the pink bowl...with your living room in general...with YOU!!
    hugs, bj

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  27. dear kathy,

    i am sorry to hear of your husband's ordeal.
    chemo is so tough, and i can imagine crying
    all the time.

    my prayers are for his total healing!

    your blog is beautiful, and i am grateful you
    spent some time with mine. that was very
    kind of you.

    now unto Him who is able to immeasurably
    more than you can imagine,
    lea

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  28. Well, I'm glad that little birdie got on to you! We worry, you know. Thanks for the update. I think of you two often and hope it's going well. Hugs.

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  29. Congrats on reaching 40 years together! Sorry to hear about Dave's illness. I am so glad you have the Lord to comfort you through these times. I will pray that the chemo does its job quickly. And that you have peace and comfort through these rough times.
    Kate

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  30. I continue to lift you both up in prayer. May you have a wonderful anniversary!

    Blessings!

    Kathy

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  31. Congratulations on your fortieth anniversary! Hope the two of you can do something special together - time together is the most special, isn't it? I'm still praying for you.
    ~Adrienne~

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Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts with me...I am always encouraged by your kind expressions and thoughtful comments....Know that you are loved....xoxo Kathy.